Nothing is easy when it comes to matters of the heart. It doesn’t matter what type of situation it is. When your heart is involved, it isn’t easy. Love is priceless. Yet love isn’t always easy. However, just because you love, you shouldn’t lose. If you lose yourself just because you love, you have indeed lost–lost your pride, yourself, your worth and have no clue of your role or purpose. In all things, there are roles, if you know the role you play, no matter what adversaries you face, you will still be the boss. You lose power by being a weak, insecure thief, creeping around for something to hold against someone, looking for something to give you a pat on the back to make you feel good about yourself.
Fact–those that are miserable seek more misery. The problem actually exists within themselves. Those people are actually insecure of themselves. Instead they shift the attention to others to point out their wrongs and/or they shift attention to cover up their wrong doings so they can do wrong and it stays unnoticed.
Don’t let the insecurities of others kill your joy. Some are just like our personal Devils. Sometimes you think you found it all when you didn’t. Know your role, work it and have a seat.
Sometimes people have the best seats in the house at a concert but the keep complaining about their seat. They keep going to the same concert each time it comes to their city and each time they want a closer seat. Finally, they are at the edge of the stage and even have a backstage pass. Then they realize their original seat was the best seat in the house. But they complained and complained and now, being at the edge of the stage and even going on stage wasn’t all they thought it would be. They realized it wasn’t what they wanted but they lost their spot.